Tuesday, April 20, 2010

One of the hardest parts.....

I believe that one of the hardest parts of this whole experience was telling our children! We still didn't know many details and didn't want them to associate my cancer with my dad's. Shaun and I prayed that we would say the right thing and that we would be strong enough to let them know that everything would be o.k. Many tears were shed that night as we sat them down and listened to their concerns and questions. They are amazingly tough kids and we knew that we were going to be blessed and comforted throughout the next several months. My whole life revolves around Shaun and my children and my love and concern for them has never been so strong.

9 comments:

lisa said...

I am so glad to "hear" from you on here. I think about you often and pray for you too. Hope things are going okay. Please keep writing your story here. I love to hear it. I love you, Lis

Joseph and Kamber said...

Thanks for the update Alicia. I have been thinking about you a lot since I heard the news from Shannon. Joseph just had surgery in February to remove a tumor in his kidney that was cancer. It is a very scarry thing and a very scarry word. Stay positive. My sister was diagnosed with breast cancer 1 1/2 years ago. She is doing well now. If you want someone to talk to I can give you her email/phone #. Just email me if you want it. kamberdent@yahoo.com

Kevin + Marcy said...

Hi, 'Lish! You're so awesome to be writing down all these details! I love you tons and hope you have a great week. We're looking forward to seeing you Saturday!

The Fry Family said...

I dont even know what to say.. I love you and you are the strongest most amazing person I have ever meet and im so lucky to have you in you my life...

Joy & Casey said...

You amaze me. I am so grateful for you-for your friendship and for your example. You are in our prayers and we are here when you need us! Love you tons girl! Thanks for sharing your story-humbling to read it here...

The Ekins said...

I am so sorry to hear about everything you have been going through. I spoke with your mom a week or so ago and she filled me in on what you have been doing. You are so brave, you have put this whole experience in such moving words. Reading about your faith and optimism is really amazing. Please let me know if there is anything I can do, really, anything!!!! You and your family will be in my prayers!

Sarah said...

I feel like I am so in the dark living out of state. I just recently heard your news and I am so sorry, but if there is one thing I know about you, it's that you are strong. I am so glad you are journaling your experience. I think alot of people will gain strength from you and be touched by you. You are an amazing person. I will be thinking of you and keeping you and your family in my prayers.

stacey said...

I am so glad that you are posting this trial that you are going through. It gives me strength to see your AMAZING attitude and faith. You are an incredible person Alicia, and I admire you so much!!!

(BTW - I sent you an invite to my blog through your e-mail)

Catherine1216 said...

Hi Alicia,

I heard about your news from Caitie. She always knows everything. I will keep you in my prayers.

Catherine